One of the fastest ways to destroy a relationship is to get comfortable. By that I mean, stop doing the things that brought you together. And going even further, to always strive to be better. There are many reasons to date, fall in love, and marry someone, but I believe one of the most important should be that, as a couple, you share the same goals, or at the very least, have goals that drive you.
Passion is a very underrated element in a relationship, and not just sexual passion but a zest for life! It's the thing that makes you spring out of bed in the morning; it wakes you up in the middle of the night writing down ideas, and motivates you to hit the gym when everyone else is asleep.
If you understand what I'm saying, let me warn you, do not date, fall in love with, or marry someone who is not like minded. Not only will it zap all the energy from you, your partner will resent you for not being able to keep up, they'll feel unworthy, which leads to insecurity, and we all know what happens after that, right?
In order to grow you must leave your comfort zone, and that takes courage. So, why not just date, marry and associate with people who are just as courageous and uncomfortable as you? ~ Michael Baisden
Inspired by Michael Baisden's book, Raise Your Hand If You Have Issues. Check out this and my other books available on all e-book formats. Click this link to go to amazon.com: http://amzn.to/1uxlx2f.
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