Everyday we read stories about how social media is destroying relationships. And in the hands of an idiot I can see how that's true. But as a businessman and someone who loves examining human behavior Facebook and other social media platforms can tell you more about a person than any resume, interview, or date night.
When a person chooses to share a specific photo, video, article, or quote they're giving you a window into their psyche. Provocative photos that expose their body, drunken videos at the club with someone's hands all over their behind and personal attacks on their ex's says a lot about a person. And even what a person finds funny is an indication of their mentality.
Everyday someone ruins an employment opportunity because of what they post on social media. But that's what happens when you don't think twice before you expose yourself for the world to see, FOREVER! But for the employer social media is an invaluable tool to weed out undesirables and that's precisely how we should utilize it when it comes to interacting with each other. I've always said that dating is a process of elimination and social media is the best elimination tool ever!
Yes, I've created some wonderful friendships through Facebook over the years. Some that will last a lifetime. But I've also avoided people who were classless or had serious emotional baggage all because I took the time to investigate them through their social media pages. I don't about you but when I'm interested in someone for employment, friendship, or relationships, I go through their profiles like Sherlock Holmes. lol I mean, what's the point of having all that information at your fingers tips and not use it, right? ~ Michael Baisden
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