Before I start, I want to say this — I love my husband. And I love my daughter. I feel complete when they're around. But last weekend I went to the movies by myself, and it was amazing.
Every decision was mine to make. My purse wasn't stuffed with Pull-Ups or children's books. I even stopped at Trader Joe's on the way home, which is typically a tough trip to make with a toddler. Having some time by myself really refreshed my batteries. What would have made it better was if a friend were with me, especially one I haven't seen in a while.
My friends are all located in different states. Not many of them live close to me anymore, meaning that a lot of catch-ups happen through text and Instagram. It'd be the ultimate dream to gather a bunch of them together and take them on a trip — especially the ones who have kids, as I know they'd need it the most. Like me, they probably deal with potty training incidents, crayons on the wall, and stubborn refusals to eat dinner. Wouldn't it be nice to get away?
Once you start a family, travel becomes very child-oriented. You eat at places that serve macaroni and cheese. You prepare for meltdowns or boredom. In short, you have fun, but you can't really be yourself. That's why travel and trips without your kids are important.
Even a weekend trip may be just what all of you need. Just make sure that the goal is simple — you and your friends can check in on your partners and children, but your main goal is to enjoy yourselves. Have the budget and time for a larger trip? Then make it count.
The Grand Canyon
Going to the Grand Canyon might seem like a family trip, but it's perfect for a bunch of women who want to experience nature firsthand. Try going when the weather is a little cooler, but not cold. You can try to camp while you're there, or just get a hotel close by based on your own preferences. You can also book a Grand Canyon river rafting experience together.
Portland, Oregon
Fancy yourself as a foodie? Then you might want to make a stop in Portland. WalletHub even named it the No. 1 city in America for food. Some popular places include Screen Door, Mother's Bistro & Bar, and Pine State Biscuits. If you're looking for ice cream, you'll definitely want to stop in at Salt & Straw. Depending on the size of your group, one person can claim a "day" and map out the restaurants you'll visit. Just try to avoid places with kid menus while you're there.
Miami, Florida
Aside from the sun, Miami also has a ton of great food options. But it's also a great place to shop. You'll want to stop by Dolphin Mall, which has more than 240 outlets. Sawgrass Mills is also a great mall experience, and it's very popular with locals. The city also has a bunch of antique stores and thrift stores, if that's more your thing. Beach by day and shopping by night sounds like the perfect getaway.
Seattle, Washington
As far as cities go, Seattle is absolutely beautiful. There's also a lot to do. You can check out some of the buskers by Pike Place Market, ascend the Space Needle, visit the Museum of Pop Culture, and make sure you and your friends all get to ride the Great Wheel together. Or you can just get a great hotel room with a bunch of relaxing amenities. For the first time in a long time, the schedule is up to Mom only.
Austin, Texas
One thing's for sure — you don't mess with Texas. If you've never been there, Austin is a wonderful place to bring your best girlfriends. Just remember, it tends to be a little hot. Book a dinner cruise down Lady Bird Lake. If you dig that, you might also be into the Austin Duck Adventures tour. Southwest Austin contains Magic's Theater, which is perfect if you enjoy magic shows.
Martha's Vineyard, Massachusetts
Are you really in the mood to get away? Martha's Vineyard is literally an island, and there's a ton of wine there. Contrary to what you may believe, there's not an actual vineyard on the island, but there are a few wine-centered events that are worth the travel. In May, Martha's Vineyard celebrates its multiday MV Wine Fest. It also has an annual Food & Wine Festival in October that you'll likely want to attend.
Napa Valley, California
If wine is what you're after, Napa Valley might make a better trip. Since moms tend to gravitate toward wine, especially with their dinner, this trip can be an interactive experience. Also, you won't feel bad leaving the kids at home, since they might not find joy in winery visits. There are plenty of ways you can visit wineries. If the weather's nice, check out Napa Valley Bike Tours and bike your way around wine country.
