Sometimes our interactions can be totally bewildering.
You hear the words a person is saying but you're unsure of how they actually feel.
On dates especially, it can feel like he is saying one thing but deep down your gut knows he means another.
Fear not, your gut may be right. Reading body language — or the nonverbal communications expressed by physical and facial movements – can occur subconsciously, but it is also a sign of a high emotional intelligence.
Though body language can vary from culture to culture (for example: Americans love their personal space so getting close to a stranger signals intrusiveness, while in France you may find strangers happily sitting closely together), it can be a helpful indicator of what someone is thinking.
If you and the person you're speaking with grew up in the same culture, chances are you have the same body language grammar.
In relationships body language may help you understand your partner better and thus, find better ways to communicate with them.
Check out this list of 12 body language secrets and decode the hidden meanings in your everyday conversations!
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Crossed Legs
He may cross his legs to indicate he is bored, disinterested, threatened, or a little insecure.
Touching One Of His Ears
Tugging of the ear usually means someone is contemplating a decision but can't quite decide.
Beard Stroking
Stroking of the chin or beard shows that he is evaluating or dissecting the situation.
Locked Ankles
If the ankles are locked, while sitting or standing, it can signal apprehension or nervousness.
See what his finger tapping means on the NEXT page.
Steeple Hands
This is usually reserved to indicate authority or control over a situation. You may see your boss doing this every now and again.
Good Posture
Standing up straight, a trait found commonly in military men, indicates that he is feeling confident and like himself.
Firm Handshake
A firm handshake indicates outward confidence which can mean he is actually confident, alternatively he could be masking deceit or a weak bullying nature.
On the other hand, a weak handshake doesn't expose a "weak person" — rather, they are a red herring and are totally subjective.
Finger Tapping
If he starts tapping or drumming his fingers, it can mean he is impatient or tired.
See what touching his nose means on the NEXT page!
Nail Biting
Nail biting typically means a person is feeling nervous, stressed, or insecure.
Nose Touching
Touching the nose can mean the person is lying or in disbelief.
Open Palms
Palms up can signal a show of submission, admission, or honesty.
A balled fist can mean he is feeling defensive, both negatively and positively. Think someone shaking their fist in anger versus shaking their fist while rooting for a team.
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