It's hard to be a guy in the dating world. Even though it's 2016, society still expects you to make the first move and even pay for your date. Sometimes, it seems that even if you do everything right, you still end up getting turned down for a second date. What gives? Well, even if you have a great personality and your date isn't shallow, your physical traits might be what's sabotaging your chances at finding love.
Just as there are things that many women do that can be major turn-offs for men, there are lots of things that guys do that may seem normal to you, but aren't attractive to a potential mate. It's easy to get into certain habits when you're living the single life, but once you start dating again, you might find that you need to change some of the things you've gotten used to doing as a bachelor. Even though many aspects of dating have changed throughout time, these suggestions really stand the test of time when it comes to attracting women.
If you're a guy looking for love, check out these traits that are huge turn-offs for women. While you should always be yourself and find someone who likes you just the way you are, it might be worth making some changes to your lifestyle if you find that you're guilty of numerous items on this list. I'm all about prioritizing personality over looks, but number 6 is a definite deal breaker for me!
Make sure you SHARE these handy dating tips with everyone you know!
1. Patchy or unkempt facial hair
Beards can be attractive and masculine if done right, but if they only grow in patches or you can't be bothered to keep things trimmed up, it's better to stay clean-shaven. Otherwise, you just end up looking like a slob.
2. Too much cologne
The scent you spray on should be discovered, not announced. A little bit of cologne can be really attractive, but if you apply too much, you'll end up looking (and smelling) like a high school boy who has no idea how to maintain himself.
3. Dirty fingernails
A hard-working man who isn't afraid to get his hands dirty is definitely attractive, but it's not nearly as sexy when that man doesn't bother to scrub all the grime out from underneath his nails before going out to dinner with you.
4. Ill-fitting clothes
Even if you're packing some serious muscle, it's not exactly hot when you show it off in a shirt that looks like it's cutting off circulation.
5. Unruly eyebrows
Nobody's asking you to keep your brows perfectly waxed, but making sure that you don't have a single caterpillar sleeping on your face is an easy way to become more attractive to potential love interests.
6. Talon-like toenails
If you go on a trip to the beach with the object of your affection or you're just at the point where you can hang out in pajamas and watch movies with them, it's best to keep those toenails trimmed up. Nothing kills the mood quite like having to worry about accidentally getting a claw wound while playing footsie.
7. Yellow teeth
No one is saying your pearly whites have to be blindingly white, but if you don't practice good dental hygiene, drink lots of coffee, or smoke, your smile will let your date know. A cheap at-home whitening kit can make your teeth beautiful without breaking the bank.
8. Bad breath
No matter how charming and handsome you are, bad breath can kill your chances of ever getting a kiss from the person you're crushing on. Keep some minty gum with you to keep any lingering garlic or peanut butter breath at bay.
9. Unkempt hair
That "just got out of bed" look can be really cute… if you actually just got out of bed. When you're on a date or at work, messy hair doesn't make you look carefree and fun — it makes you look sloppy.
10. Not wearing enough deodorant
Not wearing enough deodorant can be just as bad as, if not worse than, wearing too much cologne. Letting your natural scent shine is OK, but keep your sweaty spots clean and deodorized if you want to attract a potential significant other.
11. Inappropriate shoes
If you're the type of guy who wears a nice button-down shirt, expensive slacks, and dirty tennis shoes, stop. It makes you look like you never learned how to properly dress yourself, and you'll be hard-pressed to find a woman who's willing to put up with that.
12. A wandering eye
No matter how attractive you are, few things are a bigger turn-off than watching a guy check out another woman while he's on a date with you. The woman you're with now is the one who deserves the attention, no matter how great those jeans look on the lady walking out of the restaurant.
13. Cracked feet
Just like toenails, this isn't something your date is likely to notice about you until you get to know each other better. Having a pedicure isn't necessary, but a little moisturizer can do wonders for preventing the "ick" factor that comes when you see sheets of skin peeling off someone's heels.
14. Dirty facial hair
As great as full beard may look, it's also a breeding ground for bacteria. If you have a fuzzy face, make sure it's free of any leftover crumbs or other yucky stuff.
15. Chapped lips
Lips are a lot less kissable when they're dry and cracked. Avoiding chapped lips is hard if you live in a dry or cold climate, especially if you work outside, but some good lip balm will help keep them soft and moisturized.
Don't forget to SHARE this post with all your friends who are looking for love!
