Every parent feels pressure to be the best mom or dad they can be.
Sometimes, though, this feeling can get to be too much.
When one mom named Lacey Ralston felt this, she decided to take a stand and share something important with the world.
She and her husband work hard to raise their two sons, and she thinks that she deserves a nice break every once in a while.
However, many parents would feel guilty just thinking about lowering their guard for even a second.
When Lacey was taking a step back from her fast-paced life, she decided to make a post addressing the situation — and sharing her messy living room in the process.
Keep scrolling to learn what Lacey has to say about being a perfect parent and how moms and dads everywhere deserve a break!
Thumbnail Photo: Instagram / lacey_ane
This is Lacey Ralston. As a mom, she goes through so much every single day.
She has two adorable sons and a loving husband. Sometimes, life can get overwhelming, so Lacey decided to address something many parents have a hard time admitting.
The hardworking mom posted a photo of her messy living room online to make a huge statement. Although it seemed unusual, Lacey knew exactly what she was doing by posting something other mothers would hide.
In her post, she explains her feelings. She says: "I'm tired of asking everyone to pick up, including myself. I'm tired of living in chaos. I'm a horrible housewife. I'm at a loss. I feel discouraged. I'm embarrassed. I want a nap."
She's wearing pajama pants and is surrounded by toys, trucks, and other miscellaneous items.
She blatantly shares the mess on her floor and another one in her laundry room, but there is a reason behind it.
In her messy living room post, she adds: "As I type, my eldest is doing the dishes. My youngest is playing with cars quietly at my feet. They are happy. I'm taking a well-deserved break and sitting on my ass. My kids are happy and very much loved. This pictures shows that we have fun in this house, that we have jobs and that we are busy ensuring ourselves and our children experience life."
Her post easily resonates with other parents in her shoes. "Why do we put so much pressure on ourselves? I think we do it more than society does: In our heads trying to be the perfect wife, mother, daughter, friend or employee. Today I take a break. Tonight I take a bath."
And there's nothing wrong with that!
In the end, it is Lacey's bravery and openness that matters the most. By addressing the topic of "perfect parents," she is helping other moms and dads feel less obligated to keep up an unattainable front.
What do you think about Lacey's post?
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