There are few forces on Earth as powerful and as ferocious as a mother’s love for her child.
Moms have been known to pull cars off their trapped children; they fight tooth and nail to protect their little ones.
It should come as no surprise that they react with similar vehemence when it comes to anyone bullying their children. People who make the mistake of mocking kids will quickly learn not to make the same blunder twice, as we saw with the mom who defended her son against mean adults.
Of course, witnessing an adult bullying a child is always galling, but it can be even more painful when the child is facing mockery due to an illness or a disability that’s entirely out of her control.
The latest example? A little girl with joint hypermobility, which makes walking and standing for long periods exhausting.
She sometimes needs to use a stroller to rest, but, because her condition isn’t immediately visible, adults take it as an opportunity to scoff at the “spoiled” 5-year-old in the stroller.
Needless to say, her mom Rachel Bitmead, who blogs at Life of My Family and Me, has a few words for the naysayers that judge her daughter without knowing a thing about the challenges she deals with every day.
Read on below for her thoughtful response to the people that mock her daughter.
This open letter is to all of you that have looked and judged my daughter over the last few days — looking, frowning at her, those little whispers behind my back thinking I can’t hear you.
Come and talk to me and ask me why my daughter is in a stroller that she is "too big" for.
The reason Miss M, my daughter, is sitting in a stroller (not looking happy I may add) is because she has joint hypermobility syndrome.
When she walks more than usual or when it’s too hot, she has pain in her lower body. Her legs, ankles and feet are very painful.
So she actually cannot walk far at all without needing to be picked up.
Even when I pick her up, she cannot put her legs around me in order for me to carry her, because she does not have strength in them during this time.
Plus, to be honest, my back cannot cope carrying her for long periods of time.
She is on pain medication and anti-inflammatory medicines to help her until she starts to feel better.
She doesn’t always need the stroller.
She has gone an entire year without needing it, but since our holiday she has walked too much and over-exerted herself.
I didn’t think about bringing it when we went away. I wish I did, because poor Mr. B had to carry her around most of the time.
When we are out, I have found myself talking out loud to Miss M about her legs.
I’ll ask her, "How are your feet are feeling? Has the pain medication helped yet? Hopefully you’ll be walking around again in no time."
I do this just so I can give complete strangers reasons as to why Miss M is using a stroller.
And I am fed up with it.
So the next time you see a child in a stroller and think he or she looks “too old” to be in it, don’t judge or assume the child or parent is lazy. Don’t whisper behind the parent’s back or frown at either of them.
For one, a child being in a stroller has nothing to do with anyone else, and two, the child might actually have a reason to be using one.
From a fed up mum with a daughter who can’t walk at the moment without being in pain.
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