Where is it written that Valentine's Day is just for couples? I'll tell you where: absolutely nowhere. Valentine's Day is simply about love, and that comes in all forms, including the love you give to yourself as a single mom.
Being a single mom can mean so many wonderful things. It can mean that you aren't willing to settle for less than you deserve, that you're taking valuable time on your own, or that you're simply taking a dating break.
That means that, even if you're single on V-Day this year, you should totally still celebrate. In fact, you should make it epic. Seriously!
No matter what, gone are the days of singletons being bummed out on the most romantic holiday of the year. Spoil yourself rotten and have a ball instead.
Here are seven ideas to help make that happen:
1. Reflect on What You Enjoy About Single Life
Being single can be truly amazing. That doesn't mean that it doesn't feel tough to be alone sometimes, and on days like Valentine's Day, it can be easy to get caught up in that. But try flipping the script. Make a list of the things that you actually genuinely enjoy about being single. It could be that you like finding new hobbies or things that light you up. It could be that you're more productive when you're on your own, or that you spend more time focusing on your health. Taking that time to reflect and feel grateful for where you are right now can be a powerful and uplifting thing to do on the Day of Love.
2. Snag Some New Bling From the Wanderlust Self-Love Collection
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3. Challenge Yourself Physically
Getting active is a great way to beat the blues. Whatever your favorite physical activity is, do it, but don't skate through it (unless it's actually skating). Give yourself a challenge. Embark on an extra-long hike, or take the yoga class that really scares you a little. Pushing yourself further might be tough in the moment, but it's one of the best ways to show your body and mind love.
4. Buy This Uplifting Book by Poet Maggie Smith
Maggie Smith is one of the most accessible poets of our time. Her book, Keep Moving, is like a love letter of sorts, but one we can all read to ourselves. Reading this book is a great way to start any day, but certainly Valentine's Day.
5. Make a Fun Plan for Your Evening
You do not have to sit home with a pint of ice cream on Valentine's Day just because you're single! I repeat: You do not have to sit home with a pint of ice cream on Valentine's Day just because you're single. The world is your oyster! Make a fun plan for a movie night, have a glass of wine at a fun new bar, or, if you feel like it, go on a date! Whether you decide to spend the evening in your own company or someone else's, the point is, you're in control. The couch is not your destiny.
6. Buy This CBD Sex Oil, Because It's Just Good Planning
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Just because you're single doesn't mean you aren't having sex or you're doomed to a life of celibacy. Keep that in mind as you buy yourself some Sextiva CBD formula. It's the perfect way to amp up your sex game, if ya know what I mean. It's topically applied for sexual enhancement of all kinds, so no matter when the mood strikes, you'll be ready.
7. Do Not, Under Any Circumstances, Text Your Ex
Why would you anyway, honestly? You're having your best day of the year.
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