Whether you have been in a relationship for decades, been dating for only a few months, or been single for a while, navigating the waters of romance can be challenging — but, it can also be fun.
No one would ever say that love is simple, but there are plenty of ways to keep things fresh and fun with someone old or someone brand-new.
This exclusive piece explores 12 extremely easy ways to improve your love life. And the best part? None of these will take much work at all. What could be more fun than experimenting in the bedroom or taking a trip out of town together?
For those who are feeling that things are stale in their relationship, these fun ideas may just provide that extra romantic boost that you've been look for. And for those who are single or just starting a relationship, these might change the way you approach things from the get-go.
Scroll through below to see how you can reinvigorate your love life in the most positive and exciting ways possible.
Which of these will you be trying out? Do you have any other tips for those struggling in their love lives? Let us know in the comments.
1. Schedule Adult Time
Health journalist Michael Castleman tells WebMD that couples should "make a date for sex. Don't let it be an afterthought."
We all lead busy lives, but you can alleviate some pressure by getting a date on the calendar.
Alone time is crucial to keeping things fresh and fun, even if it means planning things out in advance.
2. Learn A New Bedroom Technique
There are quite a few ways to keep things spicy in the bedroom and one of those is the element of surprise.
You don't have to get too crazy. Simply ask a friend or pick up a book to get a little inspiration.
Surprising your partner after 40 years may just be the dose of romance that the doctor ordered.
3. Get Out Of The House
Castleman also warns WebMD, "Instead of champagne and oysters on the half shell with a sweeping view of Lake Tahoe as your reward, you've got your same old crummy house and peanut butter and jelly and that's about it."
Get out of town — or at least out of the house — for a bit.
A change of environment can allow you both to forget the stresses of day-to-day life and truly focus on one another.
4. Revamp Your Bedroom
After many years together, change may seem impossible. But small changes, like those to your bedroom, can help to spice things up quite a bit.
Paint the walls a new color or get yourself a set of black silk sheets for the bed.
These simple changes can rid the room of any stale feelings and reinvigorate things between the two of you.
5. Try Some PDA
PDA (public displays of affection) may seem like they aren't for everyone.
But letting someone know how much you care, in a public setting, can be both romantic and reassuring.
Also, the excitement that comes from showing affection in front of other people has been known to invigorate even the dullest of relationships.
6. Redefine Silences
Many people, especially those in newer relationships, think that silence between two people is a bad thing.
However, silence can be really great, as long as you are both on the same page about things.
According Daily Mail, "It is easy for misunderstandings to occur when one of you is more comfortable with silence than the other.
"By talking this through, you can gain valuable information to help you communicate better."
7. Get Rid Of Distractions
It can be hard to get in the mood or stay in the mood if your bedroom is full of distractions.
Daily Mail suggests, "Turn off your phone and keep any pets out of the room."
It also might be time to ditch the TV in your room. Without a show to watch in bed, you may just find yourself filling the time with a more romantic activity.
8. Perform Small Acts Of Kindness
One of the easiest ways to strengthen a relationship is to let the other person know how much you care for them.
Small acts of kindness can go an extremely long way and can jumpstart the romance if you feel it starting to fade.
Pick up their favorite flavor of ice cream. Wash their car. Surprise them with a home-cooked meal. Whatever it is, let kindness be your guide.
9. Play Together
The couple that plays together, stays together.
A large complaint among those who are bored in their relationships is that they don't have that much fun anymore.
Make a playdate or simply find a way to do something fun together.
This could be a trip to the park, a date at the miniature golf course, or a drive on over to the bowling alley.
10. Know When And Where To Talk
It might seem like you should be able to tell your partner anything at any time. But it's important to know when and where is actually appropriate to discuss sex and romance.
According to Harvard's Health Guide, "There are two types of sexual conversations: the ones you have in the bedroom and the ones you have elsewhere.
"It's perfectly appropriate to tell your partner what feels good in the middle of lovemaking, but it's best to wait until you're in a more neutral setting to discuss larger issues."
11. Keep The Romance Alive
While this should be the easiest way to improve your relationship, many people find romance extremely challenging.
Romance can take many shapes and forms, such as surprising your partner with a flower or love note.
What is most important is that you perform a gesture that is solely for the benefit of them, ideally adding a little spice and creativity at the same time.
12. Stay Physically And Mentally Fit
Staying fit doesn't mean looking a certain way. It just means staying physically and mentally healthy.
With both partners committed to staying fit, a relationship can stay healthy as well.
According to Sheknows.com, "Being fit and healthy will make you feel better about yourself — and improve your sex life."
These 12 simple tips can help to strengthen your relationship, keeping it fresh, fun, and healthy.
Which of these tips do you swear by? What other ideas do you have for maintaining a strong relationship? Let us know in the comments.
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